A wedding is a good reason to put on an outfit that is guaranteed to impress. Not too much of course, because the day revolves around the couple. This does not mean that the (future) couple does not expect you to look well-groomed, in keeping with the wedding. To make this easier, a dress code is often stated on the invitation. Always adhere to this to avoid missing the point completely. In any case, wearing white is not done.
But what do you wear to a wedding?

The first rule of a black tie event: Dress up! If the invitation says "black tie optional", this is not meant. It is exactly what the host likes to see, but this is an attempt to remain modest. What you are looking for is a peak or shawl lapel (never the notch lapel) made from a coarse silk or satin fabric that matches the vertical line that runs across the outer seam of the pants. Whether you choose peak or shawl lapels comes down to personal preference, but also your proportions.

The jacket must have one button, a maximum of two, of which you should only close the top one. The top button should be closed when you stand and open when you sit. Tuxedo pants should not have belt loops because they should never be worn with a belt. Make sure the pants fit you perfectly, regardless of belt. The trousers should end on the shoe, which is usually made of polished black leather. And make sure your silk socks are black and reach just above the calf, so that there is no distracting separation around the ankle. The skin should not be exposed, even when sitting.

TENUE-DE-VILLE

Preferably wear a (tailor-made) suit. Combinations are allowed, but are not recommended. The more subtle the outfit, the better. Usually the colors of the suit are solid blue or gray to black. Brown is now accepted, but not recommended. You wear a smoothed shirt that is always lighter than the suit. A tie is mandatory, but once again it must be taken into account that the credo is: the more subtle, the better. In terms of footwear, brogues or buckle shoes are the best option. Again made of dark leather with a matching belt. Another good pointer is that the more formal the wedding, the darker the outfit.

CASUAL CHIC

In addition to regular casual, you regularly see casual chic on invitations. The addition 'chic' already reveals what is different compared to the regular dress codes regarding casual clothing. It is in fact a combination of smart casual and casual. You can dress a little more chic, without actually becoming overly chic. A delicate balance, as you understand.

SUMMER CHIC

The name says it all: this dress code can be found at weddings that take place in the summer. Due to the higher temperatures, the couple gives you the opportunity to choose airy fabrics and weaves. They will expect you to choose summery colors, instead of dark blue or dark brown tones. Does the temperature allow it? Then you can opt for a nice pair of Bermuda shorts. For example, combine it with a linen jacket to still look smart. Also always good: a white chino with polo or pique cotton shirt.

HELP! THE INVITATION DOES NOT CONTAIN A DRESS CODE

It is becoming increasingly common for the expectant couple to leave the choice of clothing up to you. Don't take this opportunity to pull that worn-out t-shirt or jeans with holes out of the closet. Even if they haven't decided on a theme, you will still be expected to look smart. For example, choose jeans with a neutral wash, but preferably chinos. Combine this with a jacket, which you can take off if the situation allows it. Also useful: take extra accessories with you, such as a pocket square and tie, in case you suddenly find yourself the only Casual Friday among the men in tuxedos.